Is your dissatisfaction big enough?


Jason Kempf

Certified Coach

Overcoming Resistance

Is your dissatisfaction big enough?

Hi Reader,

Previously, we identified where you're feeling stuck. Those stuck points you uncovered? They're trying to tell you something important about what needs to change.

Have you ever noticed how some of your biggest life changes started with a simple thought: "I can't do this anymore"?

That feeling of dissatisfaction – with your current leadership approach, team dynamics, or personal growth – isn't just uncomfortable. It's actually the first essential ingredient in the formula for meaningful change. But here's the catch: not all dissatisfaction is created equal.

Think of dissatisfaction like fuel in your change engine. You need enough of it to power through the inevitable resistance you'll face. Too little, and you'll stall out at the first obstacle. Too much unfocused dissatisfaction, however, can lead to impulsive decisions that create more problems than solutions.

This Week's Challenge:

Take a few minutes to think through where you are dissatisfied:

  1. First, write down 2-3 current situations where you feel deeply frustrated or dissatisfied (personal or professional). Example: "Leading my team's weekly meetings"
  2. For each situation, list the top 2-3 specific things that must change. Example: Situation: Weekly team meetings Must Change:
  • Team members aren't contributing their ideas
  • We never reach clear action items
  • Discussions keep circling back to old topics

Important: Right now, resist the urge to solve these problems. This week is just about getting crystal clear on what's frustrating you. Don't worry about how to fix it - that will come later. Simply name what isn't working.

Complete this for each situation you identified. Be specific and honest - these "must changes" will become the foundation for next week's vision work.

Lead with purpose,
--Jason

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